Things to Consider in France

 I decided to check out some local customs in France as I will be visiting a few ports in France at the beginning of my trip except ‘customs’ isn’t the correct term for a search engine. Etiquette might be a better choice as customs leads you to immigration and such. Etiquette is more of what I am interested in. Here is a general list of things to consider that I saw repeatedly on a few websites.

For example: I need to know some simple phrases in the language of that country that I am visiting. In France, I might seem rude if I don’t say ‘bonjour’ whenever I enter the shops. And of course, say ‘merci’ to the staff when leaving. Sounds so simple but sometimes we don’t think to do this in our own country. It is not right for me to expect everyone to speak English to me in their own country so I need to make the effort to learn some easy to say phrases in their language. I’ll post a list of phrases soon.

Now I saw this on a website and it seems to slightly contradict the previous thought. “Don’t smile at everyone” when you are walking on the street and passing strangers. Sounds like New York City to me. If you are in a conversation with someone it is okay to smile but to smile at strangers as you walk around appears to be not appropriate.

I have noticed a number of times that a business casual dress code might be the norm. After all, France is the fashion capital and I might even go on to say Europe is big on fashion. Comfy clothes might be okay on the plane but once in Europe I might want to pack those clothes away. There are so many churches and cathedrals to visit and the dress code there is no bare shoulders or knees. I’m thinking leggings under a dress might be acceptable. One website mentioned “ when in doubt, throw on a scarf” (I guess scarfs never go out of fashion). I plan to check out a few recent YouTube videos and observe tourists attire to help me decide what to pack or quickly purchase for my trip. Jeans and comfortable shorts might be acceptable but I just am not sure.

France is not a place to haggle over prices. I had fun haggling in China but it is good to know not to do so in France.

Apparently, it is impolite to eat while strolling in the streets. You should find a place to stop and sit to eat. 

Speaking of eating - if you order off a menu, take it as it comes. Do not special order it. The chef has created a dish he/she is proud of and to ask for changes isn’t polite. Also, don’t expect ice in your drinks. You can ask for ice, just be aware your drink won’t come with ice if you don’t ask for ice. Tipping is not expected as it is usually factored into the price already. Rounding up is okay. However, the gesture of leaving a small tip is greatly appreciated. Take note - eating in a restaurant is a leisure activity and you may spend a few hours eating. You won’t be rushed so sit back, relax, and enjoy. Also, don’t ask to take the leftovers home. Your meal should be eaten as the chef prepared it - not reheated. So again I say - sit back, put your cell phone away, relax, and enjoy. 

Hopefully, the etiquette in Spain, Monaco, and Italy will be similar but I’ll do a quick search and find out and let you know. Au revoir!